//服务器端
int port = 1433;
string host = "10.252.21.8";
IPAddress ip = IPAddress.Parse(host);
IPEndPoint ipe = new IPEndPoint(ip, port);
Socket clientSocket = new Socket(AddressFamily.InterNetwork, SocketType.Stream, ProtocolType.Tcp);
clientSocket.Connect(ipe);
//send message
string sendStr = "send to server : hello,ni hao";
byte[] sendBytes = Encoding.ASCII.GetBytes(sendStr);
clientSocket.Send(sendBytes);
//receive message
string recStr = "";
byte[] recBytes = new byte[4096];
int bytes = clientSocket.Receive(recBytes, recBytes.Length, 0);
recStr += Encoding.ASCII.GetString(recBytes, 0, bytes);
textBox2.Text=recStr;
clientSocket.Close();